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Thursday, January 17, 2013
The Anger Workbook by Les Carfter, Ph.D and Frank Minirth, M.D.
The subtitle says it all: "an interactive guide to anger management". This workbook is based on Christin principles and Biblical verses. It is very thorough and I highly recommend it. This workbook gets down to business by completely focusing on the most important concept: how to identify anger. This actually surprised me a bit as I hadn't thought about other emotions being connected to, or resulting from anger. For example, irritablility, annoyance, frustration, etc. Although, these emotions may not be associated to all anger, it certainly gets you thinking about the source - or why - why do you feel so frustrated?
The workbook also has checklists to help guide you through the processes of identifying and managing anger. It also has very helpful examples that explain just what an item on a checklist is referring to. I found that extremely helpful in fully completing the process, rather than glossing over it. You were most likely have many, "Uh Huh" moments. I know I did; and I had read other books on anger.
The workbook is divided into four parts: Identifying Your Anger; Anger Thrivies on Unmet Needs; How Other Emotions Create Anger; and, Applying New Insights about Anger. This is a very thourough workbook and I highly recommend it. Even if you don't feel anger is a problem for you, if you are struggling emotionally, I am certain you will get much out of this book. You may not realize you have hidden anger and this workbook will help you identify hidden anger and manage it. Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Friday, October 12, 2012
Fully Alive: A Journey that Will Change Your Life
This is basically a motivational book. The author discusses what he has learned or discovered to have a more vibrant and meaningful life. It seems to focus around his struggles and the way he challenged himself to deal with weight loss. It touches on other aspects, such as meaningful relationships, too. Honestly, I got about halfway through and could not go on. Here's why:
The author discusses that to "Lighten Up" you need to let go of baggage. That certainly is a bit obvious. However, the author proceeds to claim that you must let go of not only bad baggage, but "good baggage", too. "Good baggage"? Really??? I read it several times trying to get an idea of what the author meant by "good baggage". I have no idea what the author means by "good baggage". Other than quoting the Apostle Paul's advice on keeping your eyes on the prize and running a good race (paraphrased). To keep your eyes on the prize, you have to let go of good baggage. What??? What is good baggage?
I can think of a lot of possiblities of what good baggage is, but it does not make sense to let go of it. For example, it could be argued that a mother keeps good baggage because she is focused on raising her children. Her children and the energies she expends raising them being "good baggage". Really??? Should the mother just abandon her children and be freed of "good baggage"???? Really????
This is where I stopped reading the book after much thought. Is this author just trying to stretch out the length of a motivational speech to book length by making and encouraging seemingly outrageous actions like getting rid of "good baggage"? Supporting my point is the fact that the author gives examples to help explain his motivational ideas, except he gives no example of how he got rid of "good baggage" or even examples of what defines "good baggage". The author is certainly able to have more pages in his book by discussing, albeit vaguely, "good baggage".
This "good baggage" turned me off from the book. I am so turned off, I don't even think I could recommend this book. "Good baggage". What ridiculous concepts do the latter half of the book discuss? In taking the author's advice, I will "lighten up" and not read the rest of this book, freeing myself from the "good baggage" by not wasting anymore time on it.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Saturday, September 1, 2012
The River by Michael Neale
The River is an analogical novel that is easy to read and thought provoking. In a way it was thought provoking as to how it relates to Christianity, as the book is published by a Christian publisher. (There are no revelations or discussions of Christianity or God, etc. in this book.) I found myself, however, also relating to the concepts in this book. Concepts of fear, including fear of living life, and overcoming such fears.
The story is very good, although predicatable at times. It's basically a coming of age story and how the main character overcomes difficult obstacles to becoming the man he was meant to be. It is well written and I found it hard to put down.
I like that it is a thought provoking book. I was disappointed in the lack of Chrisitian influence, as the anaolgical concepts could come across as non-Christian, i.e. new age, secular, etc.
It is a good read, but I would recommend this as a non-Christian book.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Monday, August 27, 2012
The Grace Effect: How the Power of One Life Can Reverse the Corruption of Unbelief by Larry Alex Taunton
The Grace Effect is not only an encouraging read for Christians, especially those battling atheists and secularism, but it is actually an account of how God intervenes and creates opportunities to work with God. The author does not characterize his book as such an account, but I couldn't help but notice the evidence of it. The book starts with a casual debate with Christopher Hitchens, a popular atheist, on Christianity, God, and God's relevance today. The author then begins his detailed account of his experience of adopting a ten year old girl from Ukraine. The author also explains Ukraine's history and how Christianity became suppressed for many decades. At first, I didn't realize where the author was going with this, but it became a real life, true example of how Christianity, or the lack of it, affects people and culture.
The author provides an evidentiary account of how true Christianity, the only religion that is based on Grace, influences society and creates what the author calls the Grace effect. Through the author's experience of the adoption process in Ukraine, a country where Christianity has been absent for many decades, the reader can see just how true Christianity affects society, even in secularism.
The adoption process in Ukraine was full of corruption, bribes and clearly did not have the child's best interests at heart. The author's interactions with citizens further illustrate how calloused and uncaring the people of Ukraine are. By explaining the history of Ukraine, with it's socialist and communist foundation, the reader clearly sees what happens to a society that is not influenced by Christianity. This is wake up call as to the dangers of the atheist movement and the damage atheism can cause to society. It is important to note that socialists and communists are atheists, which the author explains in his book.
The author makes a very good point, that atheists who live in a country influenced by Christianity are not comparable to the atheists who have not been influenced by Christianity. The lack of moral conscience in Ukraine validates this point. How Sasha's (the ten year old adoptee) life has now been affected by Christianity drives the point home. Sasha is a real life example of the Grace Effect.
I highly recommend this book for everyone, both Christian and non-Christian alike. It is an eye opener as to what will happen to a society that has been devoid of the Christian influence. After the adoption proceess, the author publically debated Christopher Hitchens, and the author's real life experience of interactions in a country that has been devoid of Christianity for many decades only strengthened the author's ability to successfully debate a prominent atheist.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Ascent from Darkness How Satan's Soldier Became God's Warrior By Michael Leehan
I finished reading this book months ago. I had not published a review because I was a bit "speechless". The author tells, in short, his life story. The author describes a few childhood and young adult tragic situations that he had been through. Discouraged, not sure whether God really exists, he decides to live his life for Satan.
The author recounts, briefly, incidents and actions that occurred as a result of his devotion for Satan. The author does not go into a lot of detail, but writes in the style that tries to elicit shocked reactions from his readers. Overall, I felt a lot of it was juvenile- such as leaving Satanic bibles at churches, and sensationalized, if even true. For example, the author briefly describes an incident where he encountered who he says was another Satanist, while checking out a house for sale with his girlfriend. The author claims that he and this man immediately sensed that each was a Satanist and proceeded to have heated words in a language only known to Satanists. Some how this language just spewed out if his mouth. No explanation as to how he learned it ... Other incidents recount terrifying hauntings, which he claims was even witnessed by a friend of his. Sounded like something out of a horror movie. The plot thickened when he describes how he was drawn to murder a prominent Pastor from a large, popular church. The author recounts how he was questioned for peculiar behavior by the church security and states he went into a trances and started channeling (a spirit/demon). Yet, the author never mentioned he had such powers previously in the book. To assure the reader, he states he had done this at times before this incident. No details; no explanation of how he got into channeling and previous results. There are just too many gaps in this autobiography.
I found this book to be highly skeptical and it troubled me that the publisher would publish a book that had many problems- problems made worse by the authors "witnesses" that verify the truth of his story. The "witnesses" were people who knew him after he turned his life over to God. I'd love to hear witness accounts from people who actually witnessed the most horrific accounts, such as his girlfriend and his friend mentioned above. Yet, there are none. Relevant eye witness testimony is simply not included. People who did not witness the horrific and only knew the author after he turned his life over to God are not witnesses and cannot verify whether the author is truthful. Since the author did not provide relevant witness testimony when he identifies such witnesses makes it very hard to believe his story.
The author states he had a muti-million dollar business that went under. The author does not provide any reasons for his loss. This only leads more credence that the author's story is either not true, grossly exaggerated or most likely a combination of the two. The author needs money. Period. I am very disappointed with the publisher's low standards. Much of this book could have been fact checked by relevant witnesses. Instead, the publisher seems to be more interested in profiting from what appears to be simply a sensationalized, grossly exaggerated and scantly true account of someone's claim to have been saved by God after serving Satan.
I do not recommend this book whatsoever.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Muscular Faith by Ben Patterson
This nonfiction book discusses all aspects of strengthening your faith and strengthening the body of Christians. Christianity is being influenced by many secular factors. Once any aspect of Christianity becomes secularized, Christianity has taken a fall. Christianity is being subjected to many ideals that would minimize it's importance. There is a quote in the book that, in my opinion, summarizes this book as a whole: "Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and, if true, if of infinite importance. The one thing it cannot be is moderately important." This is a quote from C.S. Lewis.
This book is like a pep talk - not a preachy sermon. It helps to get you more excited about your faith, your walk with God, and the Church. All aspects are covered as the author impacts the reader with the importance of a Christ-centered life.
The book is divided into four sections:
Part 1//The Call to a Vigorous Faith
To Fight the Good Fight and Finish the Race
Part 2//The Case for a Vigorous Faith
Why Does Jesus Speak with such Severity and Urgency
Part 3//The Obstacles
You Have Enemies: The Flesh, the World, and the Devil
Part 4//The Essentials
How to Fight the Good Fight
Throughout the book, the author has singled out comments, putting them in bold and outside of the paragraph. These comments emphasize the importance of the subject. For example, "All genuine Christian action begins with prayer because all genuine Christian action begins with God."
This book had me re-evaluating the strength of my faith. I learned how to strengthen my fight for the good fight and to finish the race strong.
I highly recommend this book!
Tyndale House Publishers sent me a complimentary copy of this book for me to review. This in no way influenced my review
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Where Will You Go from Here? by Valorie Burton
An excellent self-coaching book! No matter what your setback is, you will find this book empowering, enlightening, and encouraging. You may have lost your job; you may have gotten divorced; you may have had a tragic accident - to say this book is useful for any setback is an understatement.
This is a thorough book, which includes how to catch negative thinking; how to recognize how your emotions factor, how to figure out your next move; and much more. The author includes wisdom from psychologists, as well as the Bible. Each chapter ends with a prayer that is devoted to the topic of the chapter. Even more, the author is not condescending, and is realistic and encourages the reader to remain realistic and flexible with goals.
This is not a book that simply addresses feel good Bible verses. This is truly a highly useful book to get your life back on track, no matter what your setback is. The author starts the book with 5 key commitments you need to make to yourself to start you on the road to recovery. Here are the commitments, which are explained and in the very first chapter:
1. I will not feel sorry for myself.
2. I will not stare at the closed door.
3. I will dig deep to unearth the courage I need.
4. I will direct my thoughts - my thoughts will not direct me.
5. I will choose to believe that all things work together for good.
Using real life examples from the author's life, as well as others she has coached, this book is fantastic. The author is very realistic as to how you will most likely feel during the process of your comeback - such as, why don't I feel better, now? I highly recommend this book to everyone.
I received this book for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for this review. This in no way influenced my review.
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